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Thursday, May 6, 2010
The Haunted World of El Superbeasto
El Superbeasto aka “Beasto” is an unstoppable superhero masked wrestler, Producer/Director/Star of BeastoWorld Enterprises—and world-famous man of action! In his first full-length animated adventure based on the comic book created by Rob Zombie, Beasto and his super-sexy sister Suzi X must stop the unholy marriage of foul-mouthed stripper Velvet Von Black and diabolical Dr. Satan, or unleash all the sudsy powers of Hell! Welcome to a depraved domain of outrageous comedy, non-stop ultra-violence and bad-ass theme songs! Featuring a horde of Nazi zombie bikers, seven original songs by Hard ‘n Phirm and the voice talents of Tom Papa, Sheri Moon Zombie, Rosario Dawson, Brian Posehn and Paul Giamatti as Dr. Satan in THE HAUNTED WORLD OF EL SUPERBEASTO!
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Friday, April 30, 2010
Christina Aguilera- Not myself Tonight
Christina Aguilera in fetish gear and latex. Good shit, Enjoy!
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Anal: A How To Guide
Millions of heterosexual women and men love to partake in anal play. By anal play, I mean rimming, having a finger up the ass while you’re getting a blowjob, inserting butt plugs, dildos, holding a vibrator around the opening, or rubbing the opening with your finger. And this area of the body should not be ignored when one is indulging. This is a very sensitive area, that when given the proper attention, can bring one to a new world of ecstasy.
Before I get involved in any type of anal play or sex really, I make sure I'm clean. When I'm clean, I feel more confident, sexier and more ready to get myself dirty. Cleansing usually consists of emptying my bowels, or at least trying.
After that, there's taking a shower or bath no big deal. I make sure I soap myself up down there and I usually even stick one soaped up finger in my anus real quick and I know that I'm clean. Just make sure that you rinse yourself good. Leaving soap behind can be irritating to some. That's the simplest way to clean up and get ready.
If you or your partner is very concerned about hygiene, a small enema can be used. It is important to only use lukewarm water because if the water is too hot or too cold it could damage the lining or cause painful cramps. Remember, if you give yourself an enema, give yourself some time to release the liquid. Some people need half an hour, others need much longer. But if you do want to give yourself an enema, make sure you know what your doing.
One of the most important thing to remember when thinking about anal sex is that, unlike the vagina, the anus isn't self-lubricating: you gotta bring your own grease. And, the more lube you use, the better. It will make the initial penetration much more easy and less painful for the woman and make the whole experience, for both of you, much more pleasant. The most common suggestion I would give is to use LOTS of lube; I just can't emphasize this point enough.
All kinds of lube are used for anal sex, from spit to Vaseline to high-tech silicone-based lubes. I'd strongly recommend spending a little money to get a high quality water-based lubricant; remember, an oil-based lubricant like Vaseline will degrade the latex in a condom, destroying its usefulness. We'd recommend products like AstroGlide or KY Jelly, available in any drug store. Note, though a condom may be "lubricated", they typically don't offer as much lube as we'd recommend for anal sex.
A partner is much more likely to consent to anal sex if she's seen that you're open to being on the receiving end as well. Encourage her to use her fingers inside of you, or even purchase a butt plug or small dildo and let her use that. Once she's seen you're willing to do it, it'll be hard for her to resist exploring it as well.
Anal sex toys come in a wide range of sizes and shapes, so you can start off at your comfort level and work your way up later if you desire. For the absolute butt novice, a small butt plug, about the size of a pinkie finger, is a good introduction to ass play. This small plug will give you the feeling of something being up your ass without feeling overly intrusive. If you want a little more sensation, you can gently tug on it or twirl it around while it’s inserted.
A butt plug is a small rubber or silicone toy that is roughly cone shaped – tapered at the tip for easy insertion, flaring out to provide some fullness, and then tapering down to a narrower base with a flange to hold the plug in place against the anus. While most have a classic smooth cone-like shape, some are rippled for more sensation, or shaped like cocks, or angled to put pressure on the prostate gland in men.
If you feel like a small plug isn’t enough, you can certainly upgrade. Butt plugs come in a range of shapes and circumferences. Once you’ve pushed your limits far enough, you might graduate to the traffic-cone-like dimensions of the super-sized 9” by 4” huge butt plug. But that’s for true anal athletes. You’ll probably want to stick with something in the 1- to 2-inch category.
1. When first entering, ask your partner to "bear down" as if having a bowel movement. It opens the anal ring a bit and makes it easier for you to get inside without trying to push the anal ring inside with you. Go slowly at first nice gentle strokes, and then try to build to a comfortable pace for the both of you.
2. Explain that after you are inside, the urge to have a bowel movement is just the feeling of fullness, and not really a mess waiting to happen. Accept it as part of the experience and let the feeling be a turn-on, and not a worry. The anal stimulation can directly stimulate the G-Spot in women, so relax and enjoy. You will be having orgasm after orgasm in no time.
Before I get involved in any type of anal play or sex really, I make sure I'm clean. When I'm clean, I feel more confident, sexier and more ready to get myself dirty. Cleansing usually consists of emptying my bowels, or at least trying.
After that, there's taking a shower or bath no big deal. I make sure I soap myself up down there and I usually even stick one soaped up finger in my anus real quick and I know that I'm clean. Just make sure that you rinse yourself good. Leaving soap behind can be irritating to some. That's the simplest way to clean up and get ready.
If you or your partner is very concerned about hygiene, a small enema can be used. It is important to only use lukewarm water because if the water is too hot or too cold it could damage the lining or cause painful cramps. Remember, if you give yourself an enema, give yourself some time to release the liquid. Some people need half an hour, others need much longer. But if you do want to give yourself an enema, make sure you know what your doing.
One of the most important thing to remember when thinking about anal sex is that, unlike the vagina, the anus isn't self-lubricating: you gotta bring your own grease. And, the more lube you use, the better. It will make the initial penetration much more easy and less painful for the woman and make the whole experience, for both of you, much more pleasant. The most common suggestion I would give is to use LOTS of lube; I just can't emphasize this point enough.
All kinds of lube are used for anal sex, from spit to Vaseline to high-tech silicone-based lubes. I'd strongly recommend spending a little money to get a high quality water-based lubricant; remember, an oil-based lubricant like Vaseline will degrade the latex in a condom, destroying its usefulness. We'd recommend products like AstroGlide or KY Jelly, available in any drug store. Note, though a condom may be "lubricated", they typically don't offer as much lube as we'd recommend for anal sex.
A partner is much more likely to consent to anal sex if she's seen that you're open to being on the receiving end as well. Encourage her to use her fingers inside of you, or even purchase a butt plug or small dildo and let her use that. Once she's seen you're willing to do it, it'll be hard for her to resist exploring it as well.
Anal sex toys come in a wide range of sizes and shapes, so you can start off at your comfort level and work your way up later if you desire. For the absolute butt novice, a small butt plug, about the size of a pinkie finger, is a good introduction to ass play. This small plug will give you the feeling of something being up your ass without feeling overly intrusive. If you want a little more sensation, you can gently tug on it or twirl it around while it’s inserted.
A butt plug is a small rubber or silicone toy that is roughly cone shaped – tapered at the tip for easy insertion, flaring out to provide some fullness, and then tapering down to a narrower base with a flange to hold the plug in place against the anus. While most have a classic smooth cone-like shape, some are rippled for more sensation, or shaped like cocks, or angled to put pressure on the prostate gland in men.
If you feel like a small plug isn’t enough, you can certainly upgrade. Butt plugs come in a range of shapes and circumferences. Once you’ve pushed your limits far enough, you might graduate to the traffic-cone-like dimensions of the super-sized 9” by 4” huge butt plug. But that’s for true anal athletes. You’ll probably want to stick with something in the 1- to 2-inch category.
1. When first entering, ask your partner to "bear down" as if having a bowel movement. It opens the anal ring a bit and makes it easier for you to get inside without trying to push the anal ring inside with you. Go slowly at first nice gentle strokes, and then try to build to a comfortable pace for the both of you.
2. Explain that after you are inside, the urge to have a bowel movement is just the feeling of fullness, and not really a mess waiting to happen. Accept it as part of the experience and let the feeling be a turn-on, and not a worry. The anal stimulation can directly stimulate the G-Spot in women, so relax and enjoy. You will be having orgasm after orgasm in no time.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Real BDSM or Domination and submission
Definition:
Domination and submission (also known as D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of dominance of one individual over another in an erotic or lifestyle context.
D/s is often referred to as the "mental" side of BDSM. Physical contact is not a necessity, and can even be conducted anonymously over telephone, email or (more recently) instant messaging services. In other cases it can be intensely physical, sometimes traversing into sadomasochism. In D/s, one takes pleasure or erotic enjoyment out of either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called Dominants, Doms (male) or Dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called subs or submissives (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays in either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. "Dominatrix" is a term usually reserved for a female professional dominant that dominates others for pay.
Overview:
Dominance and submission, and the inner conflict and surrender connected with these are enduring themes in human culture and civilization. Human beings share with many other mammals the instinct to look up to certain individuals who become leaders through strength of will and personality, to lead or follow, and to submit or dominate. In human sexuality this has broadened to include mutual exploration of roles, emotions and activities that would be difficult or impossible to do without a willing partner taking an opposing role.
D/s is often described by what it is not. It deals with representations of brutality and cruelty, and the emotional responses to them, but adherents are quick to point out that D/s is not about acts of true brutality and cruelty. It is based on a deep ethos of mutual respect in which exploration of the emotions brought up by brutality and cruelty can take place in a safe, sane and consensual manner. D/s may be ritualized or freeform. It is usually a negotiated lifestyle, with people discussing their wishes, limits and needs in order to find commonality. A D/s relationship may be sexual or non-sexual, long or short term, and intimate or anonymous. Most adherents search for the essential intensity, trust and intimacy that are required to make any deep relationship possible.
Relationships:
In some D/s relationships a partner only submits occasionally and with definite short-term goals, perhaps for an evening or the duration of a party.
In other relationships, there may be an ongoing (not scene- or play-specific) power exchange between or among partners in a committed relationship, often involving love and servitude and enacted in ways throughout the relationship. Some D/s relationships may be compared to the idealized marriages portrayed in older television programs, in which one partner is domestic and service-oriented and the other partner is the provider, protector, and household authority. BDSM may otherwise be deliberately and consciously incorporated into the relationship, or it may focus wholly on power exchange.
Some people may opt for the Master or Mistress/slave model, in which consent is negotiated once for a long period and the consent given is generally broader. Slave contracts may be used. Where the contract is in effect continuously, the relationship is referred to as "24/7". The limits of the slave contract can vary widely and extend into other areas of BDSM. Some people opt to be purely "sex slaves", while others who prefer domestic service identify as "service slaves". Some slaves allow their Masters or Mistresses complete latitude as to the demands that can be placed on them. Such a relationship is known as Total Power Exchange or TPE.
People usually only enter into a Master/slave contract after they have known and played with each other for some time, often several years. It can be one of the most difficult relationships in the BDSM world to maintain, and requires special skills and experience.
Collars:
Many submissives and slaves wear a "collar" to denote their status and commitment. It can be much like a wedding band, except that only the submissive partner wears one. The traditional collar is a neck band in leather or metal, chosen, designed or even crafted by the Dominant partner. Some subs wear a "symbolic collar", often a bracelet or ankle chain, which is more subdued than the traditional collar and can pass in vanilla (non-BDSM) situations. It is not uncommon for a sub to have several collars for special occasions.
There was once a tradition that wearing a collar with an open padlock indicated that one was seeking a partner, a closed lock indicated that one was in a relationship. This symbolism became less common after 1995 or so.
Many people, for example some of those in the punk rock and goth subcultures, wear collars for other reasons such as fashion; so one cannot assume that all people wearing collars are involved in BDSM. Members of the furry fandom may also wear collars as a part of costuming or as a fashion. Use of collars in the sexual aspects of furry lifestyle may or may not be connected to BDSM depending on the individual's preferences.
BDSM vs. Abuse
BDSM
* BDSM is based on the safe, sane, consensual theory
* D/s is a controlled environment
* D/s has safe words to stop the scene
* In a D/s scene the dominant looks out for the well being of the submissive
* D/s can be an erotic sexual encounter
* In D/s both partners are enjoying themselves
* In D/s the dominant respects limits
* In D/s there is mutual respect
* In D/s the relationship is fulfilling
* In D/s both parties feel they contribute towards the relationships
* In D/s one can ask their partner to "play"
* In D/s relationship there is trust
* In D/s a submissive voluntarily serves the dominant
* D/s is about building trust
* D/s builds self esteem
* D/s builds the spirit of a submissive
Abuse
* Abuse is not negotiated
* Abuse is an out of control environment
* Abuse does not have safe words
* An abuser does not give a damn about the victim
* Abuse is always one sided
* Abuse is never negotiated.
* In abuse, no one is enjoying the results
* The abuser is into non consensual violence
* The victim has no respect towards the abuser
* In abuse the victim is harmed
* In abuse both parties are left unfulfilled
* The abuser always feel they are superior
* A person does not ask for abuse
* In an abusive relationship there is no trust
* The abuser does not care for consent
* Abuse has no trust
* Abuse destroys self esteem
* An abuser destroys the spirit of the victim
BDSM
* BDSM is based on the safe, sane, consensual theory
* D/s is a controlled environment
* D/s has safe words to stop the scene
* In a D/s scene the dominant looks out for the well being of the submissive
* D/s can be an erotic sexual encounter
* In D/s both partners are enjoying themselves
* In D/s the dominant respects limits
* In D/s there is mutual respect
* In D/s the relationship is fulfilling
* In D/s both parties feel they contribute towards the relationships
* In D/s one can ask their partner to "play"
* In D/s relationship there is trust
* In D/s a submissive voluntarily serves the dominant
* D/s is about building trust
* D/s builds self esteem
* D/s builds the spirit of a submissive
Abuse
* Abuse is not negotiated
* Abuse is an out of control environment
* Abuse does not have safe words
* An abuser does not give a damn about the victim
* Abuse is always one sided
* Abuse is never negotiated.
* In abuse, no one is enjoying the results
* The abuser is into non consensual violence
* The victim has no respect towards the abuser
* In abuse the victim is harmed
* In abuse both parties are left unfulfilled
* The abuser always feel they are superior
* A person does not ask for abuse
* In an abusive relationship there is no trust
* The abuser does not care for consent
* Abuse has no trust
* Abuse destroys self esteem
* An abuser destroys the spirit of the victim
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Wednesday, April 21, 2010
What is the state of D/s relations now?
What can I say here? This is one rant i had to get out:
I am one of the submissives on this site that is truly devoted to the lifestyle and get complete joy out of, It makes me feel complete, to feel accepted, to feel i belong to this amazing wonderful twisted demented thing.
Anyone who has talked to me for any length of time can tell by the way i talk and act that D/s means the world to me. I have a generally dominant personality and don't take shit from people, but in a relationship (D/s) i am completely subservient. It is my duty, my job, my obligation to ensure that my Master/Dom/King knows from my words and actions (at all times) that i am completely his and that in giving him pleasure and my total service, that it in turn gives me immense joy.
To hear that i have done a good job or pleased my Master makes me feel warm and accomplished. Some people that i know look down on my choice. They think that because i choose to be with someone that calls me "slut", "bitch", and "whore" that he does not cherish me. This sounds silly aloud but it is how i feel: when my Master treats me like his whore, i feel beautiful.
I hate hearing about the people that take this dirty filthy beautiful thing (D/s) and turn it into an excuse for abuse or simple fun and games. Most of us know that our D/s roles are in our blood, we aren't ourselves without it. i can understand the appeal (of course) but i would love to see more submissives on this site that are REALLY subs, and not just lonely women looking for a thrill. I would also like to see more respect from one person to another here.
I think so many people are trying to portray their idea of what they think SHOULD be how a Dom or sub acts. If you are a true Dom, you should be able to use the mildest tone and command attention and obedience. There is no reason to yell and beat your sub within an inch of her life.
Also we hear this all the time, but Doms want a submissive, not a doormat. That means basically, have a personality of your own, don't adopt everything that your Master loves as your own and forget yourself. There was a reason that Dom chose you, remain the person they chose, just be a better version. I think that it would be very boring to be with someone who couldn't and didn't think for themselves, What would you talk about? Nothing! Its ridiculous.
In thinking about that, i am reminded of the scene from the movie "Coming to America", when the prince (Eddie Murphy) is first meeting his intended wife. Though she is beautiful, he wants to learn some things about her. He asks her a few questions about her likes and dislikes, to which she answered "Whatever you like". How fucking dull. He makes her embarrass herself hopping on one leg while barking like a dog. That is a fucking doormat, and no REAL man wants to be involved with someone that doesn't know who she is.
I am one of the submissives on this site that is truly devoted to the lifestyle and get complete joy out of, It makes me feel complete, to feel accepted, to feel i belong to this amazing wonderful twisted demented thing.
Anyone who has talked to me for any length of time can tell by the way i talk and act that D/s means the world to me. I have a generally dominant personality and don't take shit from people, but in a relationship (D/s) i am completely subservient. It is my duty, my job, my obligation to ensure that my Master/Dom/King knows from my words and actions (at all times) that i am completely his and that in giving him pleasure and my total service, that it in turn gives me immense joy.
To hear that i have done a good job or pleased my Master makes me feel warm and accomplished. Some people that i know look down on my choice. They think that because i choose to be with someone that calls me "slut", "bitch", and "whore" that he does not cherish me. This sounds silly aloud but it is how i feel: when my Master treats me like his whore, i feel beautiful.
I hate hearing about the people that take this dirty filthy beautiful thing (D/s) and turn it into an excuse for abuse or simple fun and games. Most of us know that our D/s roles are in our blood, we aren't ourselves without it. i can understand the appeal (of course) but i would love to see more submissives on this site that are REALLY subs, and not just lonely women looking for a thrill. I would also like to see more respect from one person to another here.
I think so many people are trying to portray their idea of what they think SHOULD be how a Dom or sub acts. If you are a true Dom, you should be able to use the mildest tone and command attention and obedience. There is no reason to yell and beat your sub within an inch of her life.
Also we hear this all the time, but Doms want a submissive, not a doormat. That means basically, have a personality of your own, don't adopt everything that your Master loves as your own and forget yourself. There was a reason that Dom chose you, remain the person they chose, just be a better version. I think that it would be very boring to be with someone who couldn't and didn't think for themselves, What would you talk about? Nothing! Its ridiculous.
In thinking about that, i am reminded of the scene from the movie "Coming to America", when the prince (Eddie Murphy) is first meeting his intended wife. Though she is beautiful, he wants to learn some things about her. He asks her a few questions about her likes and dislikes, to which she answered "Whatever you like". How fucking dull. He makes her embarrass herself hopping on one leg while barking like a dog. That is a fucking doormat, and no REAL man wants to be involved with someone that doesn't know who she is.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Sunday, April 18, 2010
My new Passion: Corset Piercing

I am really beginning to fall for the idea of getting my back corset pierced. Not only is it very sensual, but its so very different. I already have been different from other people that i know, but i would love to have my back corseted, and have my man be the one who laces me. I think it would be terribly sensual.
I am planning to get tattoos down my spine and i think that the corset would be the thing that just takes it over the top. I think about how it will feel to get the piercings, how it would feel to be laced up the first time, the things i would wear to accentuate them.
The the fact that i am submissive that loves to be spanked and want desperately to be flogged. To think about the pain and sensations i would feel being flogged with a laced corset, it makes me so excited.
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