I am one of the submissives on this site that is truly devoted to the lifestyle and get complete joy out of, It makes me feel complete, to feel accepted, to feel i belong to this amazing wonderful twisted demented thing.
Anyone who has talked to me for any length of time can tell by the way i talk and act that D/s means the world to me. I have a generally dominant personality and don't take shit from people, but in a relationship (D/s) i am completely subservient. It is my duty, my job, my obligation to ensure that my Master/Dom/King knows from my words and actions (at all times) that i am completely his and that in giving him pleasure and my total service, that it in turn gives me immense joy.
To hear that i have done a good job or pleased my Master makes me feel warm and accomplished. Some people that i know look down on my choice. They think that because i choose to be with someone that calls me "slut", "bitch", and "whore" that he does not cherish me. This sounds silly aloud but it is how i feel: when my Master treats me like his whore, i feel beautiful.
I hate hearing about the people that take this dirty filthy beautiful thing (D/s) and turn it into an excuse for abuse or simple fun and games. Most of us know that our D/s roles are in our blood, we aren't ourselves without it. i can understand the appeal (of course) but i would love to see more submissives on this site that are REALLY subs, and not just lonely women looking for a thrill. I would also like to see more respect from one person to another here.
I think so many people are trying to portray their idea of what they think SHOULD be how a Dom or sub acts. If you are a true Dom, you should be able to use the mildest tone and command attention and obedience. There is no reason to yell and beat your sub within an inch of her life.
Also we hear this all the time, but Doms want a submissive, not a doormat. That means basically, have a personality of your own, don't adopt everything that your Master loves as your own and forget yourself. There was a reason that Dom chose you, remain the person they chose, just be a better version. I think that it would be very boring to be with someone who couldn't and didn't think for themselves, What would you talk about? Nothing! Its ridiculous.
In thinking about that, i am reminded of the scene from the movie "Coming to America", when the prince (Eddie Murphy) is first meeting his intended wife. Though she is beautiful, he wants to learn some things about her. He asks her a few questions about her likes and dislikes, to which she answered "Whatever you like". How fucking dull. He makes her embarrass herself hopping on one leg while barking like a dog. That is a fucking doormat, and no REAL man wants to be involved with someone that doesn't know who she is.
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